Monday, March 21, 2011

Reasons, Reasons, Reasons....

Wow, I find myself really struggling with the reasons things happen as they do.  So, I know we need to accept, process and use the circumstances as an opportunity....but really sometimes it is just plain overwhelming!  So what do we do to cope when that happens??  Well, the best I have come up with....is dig deep....deep deep inside, finding that silent place in our soul.  The place where our truth lives.  I mean the 'truth'....without judgement, without points of view, without bias....really inside where our true truth lies.  It is a silent place that holds our peace....a place where no matter what is going on in this mortal life we are living we can find peace, hope, acceptance.  How the heck do you find that place?  I am constantly saying that the most important way to successfully survive this life is to live 'simply'.  Find what feels right in every situation, no matter how wrong it feels...there is always a benefit to take from every situation.  Sometimes it may just be the endurance learned making it through....make sense??  Sometimes the lesson may only be knowing you can make it through a really tough time.  I have learned over the past few years to very accepting....letting go of having to know reasons for things.....learning to find that quiet place inside.  The more I practice going there the quieter it gets....til at last you find the silent truth.  Do I feel like I am making sense to you....not really....but I feel it is so so important to at least mention the sacred space we each have inside.  The place where we have all of our answers....the guidance we look for all around the outside of us...is truly within us.  Peace to all of you....Bobbi

1 comment:

  1. As you know Bobbi, this has been a struggle of mine for years. I also find myself asking what did I do to make this happen to me or my loved ones? I struggle every day to stop that and work on trying to ask myself what I will learn from the experience. I need to stop the thoughts that I am being punshed for something. Easy for the brain to understand, a constant battle for the heart to accept. ♥ ya!! Julie

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